Saturday 18 June 2011

its a girl OR its a boy!!

i was browsing  http://www.hamidarshat.com/ and found a subject that might be of interest to some of us. alhamdulillah, i am blessed with two lovely boys. they keep me fit, they are my best companion, they are doing well at school and i had them when i was very young... i had my eldest at 23 and my youngest at 26. i didn't have any sort of plans on their gender.. simply because i believed that everything happens for many reasons and most importantly, as long as my baby is born perfectly healthy, i will be very grateful, thankful and absolutely over the moon!

however, as happy mommy as i can be.. very often that i've been asked a question that i am sure none of us hold a definite answer..or ANY answer to it.

1. dah ada lelaki 2 orang, bila nak ada perempuan pulak?
  • owh... my siblings are all 5 girls, and my husband is an only son, therefore we couldn't be more ecstatic having 2 boys of our own and my parents were extremely excited that they've been blessed with 2 (3 actually plus my nephew) grandsons in our family... 
2. owh ye ke.... erm...tapi adik beradik tak sama dengan anak sendiri..
  • haah tulah, mmg akan ada difference having to raise boys vs girls... as they are very much different in characters, attitude etc etc kan.. 
3. tulah, you takde lagi anak perempuan, you mana tau beza ke tak? kenalah ada dulu, baru blh komen...
  • me was like apekah?? nak paksa2 orang pulak supaya ada anak perempuan
  • as if babies could be obtained from ATM machines... tekan pin numbers then taraaa... you know what colour notes that you are getting which resembles the amount of cash that you keyed in earlier on...
  • its never fair to compare someone else's situation with yours.. what if you don't have a girl and a boy? what if yours are two boys OR two girls?
  • seriously, erm erm... this particular person has been terminated from my good friends list... but, i maafkan dia, mungkin kerana ketidaktahuan atau kekurangan fakta dia bertanya dan berbicara sebegitu...
  • bersyukurlah atas kurniaanNya tak kira anak lelaki atau perempuan... tanggungjawab dan amanahnya tetap sama walaupun apa jua jantina anak-anak kita..
anyway, most of my friends are very supportive. they come up with unexpected tips on how to conceive a girl instead of a boy and vice versa. my good friends truly understand that no matter what the gender is.. as long as the baby is healthy, then that's fine syukur Alhamdulillah. my good friends also truly understand that nowadays, quality outcast quantity in terms of having children. in a world where small children could no longer climb trees and swim in rivers safely without being stalked by a serial whatever ... most of us tend to plan most things ahead including the how many children do we want to have. actually, i should mention iPad and Nintendo DS..but nevermind ;p.

back to my introduction... i was browsing Professor Hamid Arshat's website. Prof has posted some tips on how to conceive either boys or girls. Bear in mind, as Prof Hamid has mentioned, insyaAllah kejayaan adalah 70% dengan izinNya jua. So, here they are..

From hamidarshat.com
Petua yang saya berikan tidak boleh dijamin sepenuhnya keberhasilannya. Mungkin dengan izin Allah s.w.t. anda akan mencapai 70% kejayaan.

Sebenarnya benih lelaki menjadi penentu jantina bayi kerana benih-benih tersebut ada yang membawa keromosom X dan Y. Sedangkan telur/benih isteri hanya membawa keromosm X. Bergantung mana yang bercantum XY (anak lelaki)  XX (anak perempuan).

Ciri-ciri benih lelaki berbeda. Benih Y lebih cergas dan laju begerak tetapi lebih cepat mati berbanding dengan benih X yang lambat bergerak tetapi hidup lebih lama. Benih Y lebih tahan dalam cecair yang beralkali , sedangkan benih X lebih tahan dalam cecair asid.
Untuk mencuba anak lelaki, ikuti garis panduan berikut:
  • Makanan yang berasid seperti buah-buahan limau, nanas, mangga, cuka, minuman gas perlu dijauhkan selama 2 bulan sebelum mencuba. Makanan laut adalah digalakkan, zat-zat logam kalsium dan magnesium juga diperlukan.
  • Persetubuhan pada waktu subur iaitu pada hari penetasan telur isteri ( ovulation) adalah penting. Untuk mengetahui tentang kaedah-kaedah mengesan waktu penetasan telor.
  • Menukarkan cecairan faraj kepada beralkali dengan melakukan douching atau basuh dalam faraj dengan satu alat khas. 20 ml. Air bikarbonet dimasukkan kedalam faraj lebih kurang 2 jam sebelum mengadakan persetubuhan. Cecair bikarbonet (sodium bicarbonate ) boleh dibeli dari farmasi.
Sebaliknya, untuk merancang anak perempuan:
Kaedah-kaedah yang digunakan adalah sama dari segi prinsipnya. Ikutilah garis panduan berikut;
  • Digalakkan memakan makanan yang berasid seperti limau, asam , nenas, cuka, air minuman bergas dan lain lain. Pantang memakan makanan laut.
  • dilakukan sebelum penetasan telur isteri (ovulation). Jangan bersetubuh selama 5 hari mulai dari hari ovulation yang boleh dikesan dengan ujian-ujian subur. Tips: Boleh juga merujuk kepada ovulation online calendar.
  • Melakukan douching dengan menggunakan cecair asid (very dilute lactacyd) 2 jam sebelum persetubuhan dilakukan. 
Quoting Prof Hamid on his website, kita hanya merancang, Allah swt yang akan menentukan. Allah yang memberi rezeki kepada manusia dan setiap pemberian Allah kita terima dengan syukur Alhamdulillah, dan ia mengandungi hikmat dan nikmat yang tertentu.

need i say more? ;p
 Selamat mencuba!


4 comments:

  1. mak tak kisah nak dapat anak sedara pompuan ke laki2. ahaha... yang pasti tiap2 tahun duit raya mak kena plus plus la sebab bilangan anak sedara mak bertambah. ahaha..

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  2. ahahaha..tau takpe. anyway, cik anol jugak yang bertuah sbb anak2 sedara semuanya mewarisi kecomelan cik anol semasa anda kecik tu...

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  3. ehehe betul la tie... aku lak org dok tanya bila nak tambah biler Rayyan dan start jalan.. tensi ko tau.. sib baik dah ada dlm perut skrg.. tapi tgk lerrr

    if keluar boy sure org akn tanya biler plak nak gurls or xkan ain je sorang gurls.. if kuo nie gurls sure org akan tanya biler plak nak bg kawan Rayyan..

    penin nak layan soklan2 nie semua..

    macam ko cakap if i wish nak pilih baby bole pegi kedai and pilih ai nak gurl 2 and boy 2 kasih bungkus ye tokeh! or bole pegi mesin ATM tekan2 and taraaaa 2 boy and 2 gurl for you !

    btw, for me xkisah la boy ke gurl asal sihat walafiat & esok2 dah besar jd manusia berguna.

    and for this pregnancy plak, aku xkisah boy ke gurls asal sihat & yg penting please baby jgn besar dr Rayyan wokeh, xlarat me nak Push weiiii

    anyway, good luck ye yatie ! usaha tangga kejayaan boley ahahahahaha

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  4. hi noya...haah tulah. sama2lah kita faham bahawa kekadang ada org yang tak berapa faham..heheh..insyaAllah, doa2kanlah ye, tq!

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